Monday, July 15, 2013

Partnerships

"A true partnership is not a 50/50 proposition.  It's a work of art; a balance of ebb and flow between two people whether in love or in business.  But, that's the beauty of the partnership and it cannot succeed without give and take on both sides." ~ Jason Huntsinger
Partnerships are a tricky science.  They're tricky in the sense that there is a constant flow of balance; the balance of ebb and flow.  When working properly there is a shift, back and forth, in such a subtle way that you really don't notice it.  Your partner might feel stressed because of a project and you sense this, so you pick up some of the slack to alleviate any added stress.  Likewise, your partner might reciprocate when she senses the need.  Sounds like a relationship, doesn't it?

What makes a partnership different from a relationship is that it is not merely reactive.  A solid partnership is a collaboration of two people inspiring each other to reach their true potential, supporting them as they push the boundaries and actively seeking ways to add value to the partnership.  These two are not merely co-workers or friends; they understand the thoughts and intentions of one another, believe in each other and work to anticipate their partner's needs.

What becomes really amazing about a partnership is that this proactive anticipation has a tendency to create a need for one another.  That type of unexpected dependency can be scary for some.  Strong-willed and intelligent people see this as a detraction from their individualistic drive.  On the contrary, that view takes a pessimistic interpretation of the ebb and flow balance of the world.  Rather than focusing on what appears to be a loss of individuality, one ought to focus on the added value.  One does not take away from the other as much as one adds to the other.  Conversely, a true partner, in every sense of the word, is dedicated to building up his partner, as excited to see her succeed as he is to see himself succeed; as much as individuals as partners.
"You are one foot and I the other.  We are each capable of moving forward on our own, but the effects of a unisonous effort are exponential.  Stride with me through this life and together we become more, appreciate more and discover more to love." ~ Jason Huntsinger

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